How to be mentally strong??

"BE STRONGER THAN YOUR MENTALY EXCUSES "


It takes strong person to do their own thing and not wait for anybody else to validate their existence . Some people are too dependent on somebody, they 
dont do their own work without him, Or some people are uncofident about their goal they are mentally weak, they have fear about failure or what the people thinks about them when they didn't get
successed in their goals.While the mentally stronge peoples don't care what people think about them, They only focus on Their goals.

          "There is an old saying
That which doesnt kill you makes you stronger." I dont believe that. I think the things that try to kill you make you angry and sad. Strength comes from the good things: your family, your friends, the satisfaction ofhard work. Those are the things that will keep you whole. hose are the things to hold onto when you are broken."

12 simple things you can apply to become mentally strong

1,Don't fear alone time.
2.Don't dwell on the past.
3.Don't feel the world owes you
4.Don't expect immediate results.
5.Don't worry about pleasing everyone.
6.Don't waste time feeling sorry for yourself.
7.Don't waste energy on things you cant control.
8.Don't let others influence your emotions.
9.Don't resent on other people's success
10.Don't shy away from responsibilities.
11. Don't give up after the first failure.
12.Don't fear taking calculated risks.


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HOW TO FIX YOUR CREDIT SCORE?

FIX YOUR CREDIT SCORE

When was the last time you checked your credit score? More than likely, if you haven’t checked it in the last 12 months, someone else has—maybe even your employer. Your credit score is your financial GPA. In good times, it determines how much interest you will pay on any kind of loan, from credit cards to your mortgage. Today, because of the credit crisis and the recession, having a high score is more crucial than it has ever been.
In the current environment, if you don’t have a decent score, you may not be able to borrow money at all—even if you don’t have other debt, and no matter how much interest you are willing or able to pay. In some cases, employers are refusing to hire people who have low scores. I recently gave a talk at the Pentagon and the military leaders there told me that they take credit scores so seriously that a bad one can actually prevent a soldier from being promoted. (That’s because they consider someone with bad credit to be a security risk.)

This alone should tell you how important it is that you take your credit score seriously and work to get it back on track this year. What excites me (and should excite you) is that these days we know so much about what goes into calculating your credit score that aiming to raise your credit score by 50 to 100 points in less than a year—and often in less than six months—is a completely realistic goal.

                       #start over finish rich

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What is the meaning of life

NOT How Long You Live, but how well you have lived is the main thing.


LIFE – is a four-letter word that is complicated enough that no one will ever decode its true meaning. Whether you were born into a wealthy family or a poor one, your life will be full of ups and downs. The goal in life is to minimize the down’s and live a happy and inspiring existence.

At times, it’s seemed as though life contains an endless supply of days.

I thought this for sure when I was younger. It didn’t matter how long I held a grudge or how long I waited to do something I wanted—there would be an unlimited pool of other opportunities. At least, that’s what I thought back then.

Maybe it’s a rite of passage from childhood to adulthood, the moment when you realize life happens now and that’s all you’re guaranteed. It doesn’t really hit you when you merely know it intellectually, like you know your ABCs, state capitals, and other concrete facts.

It hits you when somehow you feel it. Your health declines. You lose someone you love. A tragedy rocks your world. It isn’t until you realize that all life fades that you consider nowa commodity, and a scarce one at that.

But maybe that’s irrelevant. Maybe living a meaningful, passionate life has nothing to do with its length and everything to do with its width.

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HOW TO START AND FINISH RICH

"FINISH WHAT YOU START"

Yes, you can start over (or get started in the first place!) and, yes, you can still finish rich, even in this economy. BUT you can’t start over and finish rich if you give up. You have to get back up off the ground, dust yourself off, and keep going.
Recessions like the one we have just experienced are not fun. They are gut shattering, and they take a long time to recover from. But we do recover. What’s more, the aftermath of a recession is the ideal environment in which to lay the foundation for a secure, financially independent future. Although the economy has already come a long way back from where it was in the winter of 2008–09, both real estate values and stock prices are still way below the peaks they hit in 2006 and 2007. In other words, there are bargains—in some cases, phenomenal bargains—to be had. More important, recessions can be a great time to reset your financial life, your goals, and your values.

how to start over?
 (Hint: It’s Never Too Late)

I got an email from a reader last week with the subject line “How to Start Over”. In it, the reader shared his personal story – being about 10 years into his career – balancing life with kids, a family, and a big corporate job – all while trying to establish his own digital platform and business – and feeling like it’s time to break free and change things, but feeling overwhelmed by the idea of “starting over”.

He brought up a point that I’ve been confronted with many times. I wanted to share my response to his email, with one overwhelming preface: You’re never “stuck”. As much as it may feel like you can’t get out of your current situation – as much weight as you put on the importance of maintaining your nine to five – as much fear as you have of disappointing your family – regardless of your current situation and regardless of your age, you’re never ever stuck.

“…I think you bring up a point that folks are faced with time and time again. I always share the story of my dad and I playing golf last year. He’s been an accountant for almost 40 years, and he’s always been apathetic to his work and has always told me he’s just “working to retire”. When I asked him why he doesn’t quit and do something else – his response was that he’s been doing what he does for so long, and it just “is what it is” – and that he doesn’t know what else he would do.

Believe me, I can understand the sentiment, and it’s hard to get into something new when you’ve been doing the same old thing for so long. But it was this conversation that inspired me and continues to motivate me to not waste a moment that I have to work on doing what I really WANT to be (and should be) doing. It’s kept me humble and active in continuing to build my business and establish myself professionally.

The best thing I can say is that you’re not stuck. You never are. It’s not easy to break free and do your own thing – especially with the added responsibility of supporting a family – But if I, a 27 year old with not a heck of a lot of experience, can get fired and start a business at age 24 – someone at age 35, or 50, or however old, with a heck of a lot more life and work experience, can certainly do it. It just takes creating a plan of action for yourself – and not being defined by your age, or held back by your current situation.

Take things one step at a time. You don’t have to quit TODAY and go “pursue your passion”. Create a plan. Start working on your passions on the side (it sounds like you already are) – and set yourself up to make an easier transition in the not-too-distant future. It also REALLY helps to set a deadline for yourself – a date to take the leap – and work toward that…”

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17 REASONS TO NEVER GIVE UP

17 Reasons To Never Give Up:

1. You Are Alive And You Can

As long as you are alive you have no excuse to say you can’t. If you put your mind to it, you can do anything. Anything is possible.

So many of our dreams at first seem impossible, then they seem improbable, and then, when we summon the will, they soon become inevitable. -  Christopher Reeve



The only valid excuse to give up is that you are dead, and if you’re reading this well…

2. Believe In Your Dreams

When you give up, you give up on yourself. Don’t sell yourself short and don’t let anybody bring you down. If you can dream it you can do it. There have been millions of dreamers before you and if they had given up the world wouldn’t have been the same.

Take the example of the Wright brothers who faced sever ridicule when they tried to make flight a reality. Everybody laughed at them and told them it was impossible. They proved the world wrong, and now flight now is considered a common means of travel and it has changed the world.

Hold fast to your dreams, for without them life is a broken winged bird that cannot fly. -Langston Hughes



3. You Have Everything You Need

Everything you need to reach your goal is already inside of you. Don’t make excuses, if people can play sports at the Olympic level with disabilities; your short-comings begin to look irrelevant.  

Be thankful. And use your God given blessings.



4. You Don’t Want To Regret This

Regret is the worse feeling a person can feel. Don’t put yourself in that position and do what you have to do, now.

I do not regret the things I've done, but those I did not do.- Rory Cochrane



5. You Need To Prove It To Yourself

You want to prove it to yourself and the world that you can.

Don’t let anything stop you from your goal. True failure isn’t when you miss the mark; but it’s when you give up. You are more capable and quitting is for losers.   

6. Success Feels Great

There is no better feeling in this world other than knowing that you faced an obstacle and that only through grit and determination you overcame it and became successful.

7. It Could Change For The Better

It might be really tough now, but it can all instantly change. If you keep going at it you never know when you’ll hit a breakthrough.

Don’t be like the person who dug a well 50mand gave up justifying that he was digging a dry well. And the person who came after him dug 1 m and hit water.

8. This Is Meant To Happen

You were destined to do this. Nothing can stop you but yourself so keep going at it and never give up. #BecomeLegendary



9. You Are Strong

You have the strength to do whatever you want and no matter the amount of setbacks you face you have the strength to keep going.

10. Pride

You have high standards for yourself and you must try to never fall short. Work as hard as you have to, for as long as you have to, to achieve your goal.

11. Learning

You will learn a lot from not giving up. You will learn about your strengths and your weaknesses. How to do things better next time and most importantly you will learn how to tackle the problems that you face head-on.

12. It Could Be Worse

The situation could be a lot worse and you should be thankful for being able to face what you are facing, because there are people out there who have much bigger problems.

13. You Deserve Happiness And Success

Everyone deserves happiness and success, including you. Don’t let these small bumps in the road take away your right.

14. Inspire Others

Be an inspiration for others. Refuse to give up and try your hardest; you never know who is watching. Your hard work and dedication could be the spark that was needed to light the dreams of those around you. Maybe you have children or siblings that look up to you. You are a hero.

15. Failure Is Normal

It’s impossible to reach success without first facing failure, so don’t let anything stop you. Failure is a normal process in life. It’s not the end but just a stream changing directions before it finally reaches the ocean.

I can accept failure, everyone fails at something. But I can't accept not trying. -Michael Jordan



16. Things Can Only Get Better

By sticking to your goal and being persistent things can only get better. If you’ve hit rock bottom or feel you’re on your way down. Remind yourself that with the right amount of hard work what comes down must go up.

Hard work and determination can get you anything in life.

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17. It’s Always The Darkest Before Dawn


Understand that the hardest trials are the ones that come right before the breakthrough. So stay persistent because at any given moment you are at the tipping point and success awaits you.

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COLLEGE DEGREES IMPORTANT OR NOT?

Does degree is important for success?

How important is a degree in becoming 'Successful in Life'?

Still have a question? Ask your own!

A person can be very successful without a degree. So many scientist have discovered and invented many things without having a degree. ... To become successful in a profession degrees are important. But to become successful in life, a degree is as importantas money is to become happy.

There are some common traits among sucessful people and I have met a few people who can be considered as sucessful.

1. They are big dreamers. More importantly the believe in their dreams.
2. They are friendly and nice people.
3. They all have strong value system.
4. Money is by-product of good work. These people focus more on their work and if money happens-great.
5. They believe in action. Everyone has plans. The difference lies weather you have convection to go ahead and implement them. 
6. They have as many fears as others. Courage is doing things inspite of fear. Not having fear is not courage. Except a movie hero, rest have their fears.
7. Successful people generally have mastery over their anger.
8. Most importantly they have clear cut goals. Rarely, these people lose focus of what they want.
9. They have supreme self-belief.
10. They never look at past, good or bad. They have a vision for present and future.
11. They are rarely self-centric. They have a vision for their sub-ordinates aswell.
12. They dont believe in impossibles and openly flaunt established norms.

Degree never is a criterion. It helps but its not a must. Else, we wouldn't have a college drop-out as world's richest man.

Conclusion

Degree is the theoretical evaluation of an abstract concept which is virtually not possible. It is the skill that helps the person to grow up both materially / financially and immaterially with respect to the status, importance, social respect and recognition etc. Degree definitely has its own importance, as a person need to have some skill in order to achieve the degree. A complete dumb individual cannot qualify to attain the degree. Hence , we can summarize by saying that the degree is the first step in the ladder of skills which leads to the success in life.

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HOW TO NOT GIVE UP ON YOUR VISION?

NEVER GIVE UP ON YOUR VISION

"MAKE YOUR VISION IS SO CLEAR THAT YOUR FEAR BECOME IRRELEVANT"

Webeen taking about visions and vision boards for the long 

time.Write the vision and engrave it plainly on [clay] tablets so that the one who reads it will run. “For the vision is yet for the appointed [future] time it hurries toward the goal [of fulfillment]; it will not fail. Even though it delays, wait [patiently] for it, because it will certainly come; it will not delay. “Look at the proud one, his soul is not right within him, but the righteous will live by his faith [in the true God]. – Habakkuk 2:2-4 (AMP)

Don't give up or give in. Decide in favor of your highest dreams and vision. Remember to be thankful daily. God Gave You a Vision of Promise. Never Give Up on Your Dreams. What God Has Planned, It Will Succeed

Here are my top three reasons to Never Give Up on your vision…
No matter what your circumstances are or what happens today, be content in all things. God will supply all your needs. Don’t be discouraged. God gave you a vision of promise. Don’t ever give up on your dreams. One phone call, one idea, one divine connection can be life changing.
Whatever God starts, he finishes. It’s done. Your situation may seem hopeless. It ain’t over until God says it over. God says it is finished. Stop giving people permission to control your destiny. Only God determines your destiny. They didn’t call or appoint you. God did.
Greatness take time! It will all be worth it! The pain will be worth it!

Fear always tries to prevent us from reaching our goals and dreams. ... Don't give up on your dreams. A vision is the capability to see beyond your current reality, creating and inventing what does not now exist and becoming what you are not right now. A vision is important in all aspects of life; physically, emotional, corporately. Building your vision does not have to be difficult as long as you know exactly what it is you see for yourself in the future.

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THE MOUNTAINS OF SUCCESS

THE 5 MOUNTAIN OF SUCCESS BY MARK DIVINE

"success is never owend, It's rented.And the rent is due everyday."

There are 5 mountain of success which is given below,

1.The Physical Mountain: methodically developing the ability to control and use your body with all-around functionality. This builds confidence and self-esteem and makes you more useful in life and to your team.Thisincludes the physical skills of strength, stamina, work capacity, endurance, and durability, properly fueling the body, sleep, recovery and learning to regulate the sympathetic and parasympathetic aspects of your autonomous nervous system.

2.The Mental Mountain: cultivating mental control and concentration, and upgrading the content of your mind to ensure a positive contribution to the world. In addition, we will sharpen the mental toughness to stay in the fight, and the creativity for more potent work. This includes learning to tap into and rewire subconscious programming and to master the skills, knowledge, and expertise necessary to your personal or professional calling.

3.The Emotional Mountain: understanding, harnessing, and controlling your vast emotional power, developing self-esteem, confidence and forging a positive resiliency in the face of great challenges.

4.The Intuition Mountain: becoming an aware and intuitive leader by learning to look within and develop your sixth sense, to listen with your belly, and get Sheepdog Strong .

5.The Kokoro Mountain: the word Kokoro has Japanese origins and means to merge one's heart and mind into action. This mountain is about developing a connection with your spirit, learning to lead and act with your heart, authentically connecting with others, and striving for an integrated consciousness that benefits all mankind. Kokoro can also be described as positive willpower, a non-quitting spirit, and is associated with your spiritual development.


                           #UNBETABLE MIND

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HOW TO SAVE MONEY??

HOW TO SAVE MONEY?

" DO NOT SPEND WHAT IS LEFT AFTER SAVING, BUT SPEND WHAT IS LEFT AFTER SAVING."

                                                                       -WARREN BUFFETT

Would you be interested in learning the secret to saving money? Fortunately, there are a few secrets that can be used to save money, even if it doesn’t feel like you have any money to save. However, these secrets are really not secrets at all, but instead are best practices in creating a budget, staying out of debt, and building your savings.


SAVING TIPS:-

1. Whenever you feel the urge to splurge — whether it's for new shoes, a new videogame, or a new car — force yourself to stop. If you're already holding the item, put it back. Leave the store.

2. When you get home, take a piece of paper and write down the name of the item, the store where you found it, and the price. Also write down the date.

3. Now post this note someplace obvious: a calendar, the fridge, a bulletin board Or you can write text file on your computer or mobile.

4. For the next thirty days, think whether you really want the item, but do not buy it.

5. If, at the end of a month, the urge is still there, then consider purchasing it.



"ITS NOT SALARY THAT MAKE YOU RICH, ITS YOUR SPENDING HABITS"

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WHAT IS THE PURPOSE OF YOUR LIFE?

Life's purpose

The best  ever exercise is to know what to do with your life

Mankind is engaged in an eternal quest for that “something else” he hopes will bring him happiness, complete and unending. For those individual souls who have sought and found God, the search is over: He is that Something Else.

Many people may doubt that finding God is the purpose of life; but everyone can accept the idea that the purpose of life is to find happiness. I say that God is Happiness. He is Bliss. He is Love. He is Joy that will never go away from your soul. So why shouldn’t you try to acquire that Happiness? No one else can give it to you. You must continuously cultivate it yourself.

Even if life gave you at one time everything you wanted — wealth, power, friends — after a while you would again become dissatisfied and need something more. But there is one thing that can never become stale to you — joy itself. Happiness that is delightfully varied, though its essence is changeless, is the inner experience everyone is seeking. Lasting, ever new joy is God. Finding this Joy within, you will find it in everything without. In God you will tap the Reservoir of perennial, unending bliss.

Suppose you are going to be punished by not being allowed to go to sleep when you are desperately in need of rest, and suddenly someone says: “All right, you may go to sleep now.” Think of the joy you would feel just before falling asleep. Multiply that one million times! Still it would not describe the joy felt in communion with God.

The joy of God is boundless, unceasing, all the time new. Body, mind, nothing can disturb you when you are in that consciousness — such is the grace and glory of the Lord. And He will explain to you whatever you haven’t been able to understand; everything you want to know.

When you sit in the silence of deep meditation, joy bubbles up from within, roused by no outer stimulus. The joy of meditation is overwhelming. Those who have not gone into the silence of true meditation do not know what real joy is.

As the mind and the feeling are directed inward, you begin to feel God’s joy. The pleasures of the senses do not last; but the joy of God is everlasting. It is incomparable!

Very few of us know how much we can put into life if we use it properly, wisely, and economically. Let us economize our time — lifetimes ebb away before we wake up, and that is why we do not realize the value of the immortal time God has given us.

Do not while away your time in idleness. A great many people occupy themselves with inconsequential activities. Ask them what they have been doing and they will usually say, “Oh, I have been busy every minute!” But they can scarcely remember what they were so busy about!

In an instant you may be required to leave this world; you will have to cancel all your engagements. Why then give any other activity first importance, with the result that you have no time for God? That is not common sense. It is because of maya, the net of cosmic delusion which is thrown over us, that we entangle ourselves in mundane interests and forget the Lord.

If we are attuned to God, our perception is limitless, pervading everywhere in the oceanic flow of the Divine Presence. When the Spirit is known, and when we know ourselves as Spirit, there is no land or sea, no earth or sky — all is He. The melting of everything in Spirit is a state no one can describe. A great bliss is felt — eternal fullness of joy and knowledge and love.

The love of God, the love of the Spirit, is an all-consuming love. Once you have experienced it, it shall lead you on and on in the eternal realms. That love will never be taken away from your heart. It shall burn there, and in its fire you shall find the great magnetism of Spirit that draws others unto you, and attracts whatsoever you truly need or desire.

I tell you truthfully that all my questions have been answered, not through man but through God. He is. He is. It is His spirit that talks to you through me. It is His love that I speak of. Thrill after thrill! Like gentle zephyrs His love comes over the soul. Day and night, week after week, year after year, it goes on increasing — you don’t know where the end is. And that is what you are seeking, every one of you. You think you want human love and prosperity, but behind these it is your Father who is calling you. If you realize He is greater than all His gifts, you will find Him.


Man has come on earth solely to learn to know God; he is here for no other reason. This is the true message of the Lord. To all those who seek and love Him, He tells of that great Life where there is no pain, no old age, no war, no death — only eternal assurance. In that Life nothing is destroyed. There is only ineffable happiness that will never grow stale — a happiness always new.

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WHAT IS THE KEY TO HAPPINESS?

HAPPINESS IS A CHOICE

" HAPPINESS STARTS WITH YOU NOT YOUR RELATIONSHIP, NOT YOUR JOB,NOT WITH YOUR MONEY, BUT WITH YOU"

If you are like most people, it is made up of countless bits and pieces of fragmented activity: exercise, work, eating, conversations, entertainment, sleep. Add up the pieces day after day, year after year, and you end up with an entire life split into millions of fragments, with no connecting thread. Fragmentation rattles our peace of mind, creating untold tension and anxiety. Over time, the fragments pile up and begin to suffocate your soul, the inner you that craves focus, purpose and direction. Is it any wonder that after forty or fifty years of slogging through such disjointed days we wake up and suddenly wonder, “Is this what life is about? Am I really happy?”



The Key to Happiness: Uniting Body and Soul

To be a happy, wholesome and healthy person, your body and soul must work in perfect harmony. This means uniting the body and soul to fulfill the mission for which we were all put on earth: to lead a meaningful, productive, and virtuous life by making this physical world a home for G-d.

The body and soul, however, are in constant conflict: the body basically looking to satisfy its needs with the soul looking for transcendence and unity. The first step in dealing with this conflict is to acknowledge that the struggle exists, and be aware of the two distinct forces. Thinking that we are a single entity leads to confusion and despair: One day we are virtuous and the next we are selfish; one day we are motivated, the next we procrastinate.

The only way to unite body and soul is to accept that G-d is far higher than our limited selves. The soul, because of its transcendent nature, can rise above selfishness more easily than the body, and can discipline the body, through study and prayer, to recognize its true mission. Only then can the body rise to its true prominence — when it serves as a vehicle for the soul instead of acting under its own power, with its selfish wants and needs. Once the body recognizes the soul’s dominance and makes peace with its twin sister, the tension can be properly harnessed.

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SELF CONFIDENCE

 How to increase your self-confidence?

   

"Confidence is like a muscle. The more you use it, the stronger it gets"

So, now you are wondering how to boost your self-confidence? well, there are some tricks and tips which I give you in this blog and it is very useful and make your everyday lifestyle better.

*INCREASE SELF-CONFIDENCE FORMULA*
(1)  I know that I have the ability to achieve the object of my definite purpose in life, therefore I demand to my self persistent, continuous action towards its attainment, and I here and now promise to render such action.

(2) I realized that dominating, thoughts my mind will eventually reproduce in themselves in outward, physical action, and gradually transform their self in physical realityThereforeor I concentrate on my thoughts for the 30 minutes daily, upon the task thinking of the person I intended to become, thereby creating in my mind clear mental picture of that person.

(3) I know the principal of the auto-suggestion, any desire that I persistently hold in my mind will eventually seek expression through some principal mean of attracting the objects back of it, therefore, I will devote ten minutes daily to demanding of myself the development of my self-confidence

These are my self-confidence boosting formula which I'm doing for a long time. But after this there are some rules that are most important while you are boosting your self-confidence;

(1) Stop comparing, stay focused on you.
(2) Relax, Go with the flow and don't stress about the little things.
(3)Love your self. You are a gift. Nothing would be the same if you do not exist.
(4) Be positive and look for the good in every situation.
(5)Do what you love. Life is too short to waste your time doing anything that you don't love.

 I fully realized that no wealth or position can last long, Unless it is built upon trust and justice, therefore, I will engage in no transaction which doesn't benefit at all.I will eliminate hatred, envy, jealousy selfishness and cynicism by developing the love for all humanity. because negative attitude never brings me success.

"To succeed is life,y ou need two things:ignorence and confidence."

                                    -MARK TWAIN

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