HOW TO MAKE RIGHT DECISION??

Personal Power


I once heard it said that the world will forgive you if you make mistakes, but that life will not forgive you if you fail to make decisions.


With all the material that has been written on the subject of personal power, I seldom hear that decision making is the first principle in the development of your personal power.


The fear of making a decision is the result of fearing to make a mistake and, as Aldous Huxley once wrote, the fear of mistakes has a greater impact on you than making the mistakes.


Now would be a good time for you to get a notepad and write down three areas that affect you daily:


 1.Where you are
2.Where you want to be
3.The steps needed to bridge the gap


This process will put you face-to-face with decisions you must make. As with every decision, there is the worst that could happen to you and the best that could happen to you. Write each side down and ask yourself what you would do if the worst happened, and then think of how much more beautiful life will be when the best happens.

This method by no means eliminates the risk you must take. But it does generate a more prepared mind and a more productive attitude for action. It also helps you become aware of some of the obstacles you must eliminate.


A study made of the lives of thousands of highly successful people showed that they all made decisions quickly and changed them very slowly, if and when they changed them at all.


Your personal power is moved into action by decision.


The materials of action are variable, but the use we make of them should be constant.


—EPICTETUS


In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.

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        How to be mentally strong??

"BE STRONGER THAN YOUR MENTALY EXCUSES "


It takes strong person to do their own thing and not wait for anybody else to validate their existence . Some people are too dependent on somebody, they 
dont do their own work without him, Or some people are uncofident about their goal they are mentally weak, they have fear about failure or what the people thinks about them when they didn't get
successed in their goals.While the mentally stronge peoples don't care what people think about them, They only focus on Their goals.

          "There is an old saying
That which doesnt kill you makes you stronger." I dont believe that. I think the things that try to kill you make you angry and sad. Strength comes from the good things: your family, your friends, the satisfaction ofhard work. Those are the things that will keep you whole. hose are the things to hold onto when you are broken."

12 simple things you can apply to become mentally strong

1,Don't fear alone time.
2.Don't dwell on the past.
3.Don't feel the world owes you
4.Don't expect immediate results.
5.Don't worry about pleasing everyone.
6.Don't waste time feeling sorry for yourself.
7.Don't waste energy on things you cant control.
8.Don't let others influence your emotions.
9.Don't resent on other people's success
10.Don't shy away from responsibilities.
11. Don't give up after the first failure.
12.Don't fear taking calculated risks.


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HOW TO FIX YOUR CREDIT SCORE?

FIX YOUR CREDIT SCORE

When was the last time you checked your credit score? More than likely, if you haven’t checked it in the last 12 months, someone else has—maybe even your employer. Your credit score is your financial GPA. In good times, it determines how much interest you will pay on any kind of loan, from credit cards to your mortgage. Today, because of the credit crisis and the recession, having a high score is more crucial than it has ever been.
In the current environment, if you don’t have a decent score, you may not be able to borrow money at all—even if you don’t have other debt, and no matter how much interest you are willing or able to pay. In some cases, employers are refusing to hire people who have low scores. I recently gave a talk at the Pentagon and the military leaders there told me that they take credit scores so seriously that a bad one can actually prevent a soldier from being promoted. (That’s because they consider someone with bad credit to be a security risk.)

This alone should tell you how important it is that you take your credit score seriously and work to get it back on track this year. What excites me (and should excite you) is that these days we know so much about what goes into calculating your credit score that aiming to raise your credit score by 50 to 100 points in less than a year—and often in less than six months—is a completely realistic goal.

                       #start over finish rich

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What is the meaning of life

NOT How Long You Live, but how well you have lived is the main thing.


LIFE – is a four-letter word that is complicated enough that no one will ever decode its true meaning. Whether you were born into a wealthy family or a poor one, your life will be full of ups and downs. The goal in life is to minimize the down’s and live a happy and inspiring existence.

At times, it’s seemed as though life contains an endless supply of days.

I thought this for sure when I was younger. It didn’t matter how long I held a grudge or how long I waited to do something I wanted—there would be an unlimited pool of other opportunities. At least, that’s what I thought back then.

Maybe it’s a rite of passage from childhood to adulthood, the moment when you realize life happens now and that’s all you’re guaranteed. It doesn’t really hit you when you merely know it intellectually, like you know your ABCs, state capitals, and other concrete facts.

It hits you when somehow you feel it. Your health declines. You lose someone you love. A tragedy rocks your world. It isn’t until you realize that all life fades that you consider nowa commodity, and a scarce one at that.

But maybe that’s irrelevant. Maybe living a meaningful, passionate life has nothing to do with its length and everything to do with its width.

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HOW TO START AND FINISH RICH

"FINISH WHAT YOU START"

Yes, you can start over (or get started in the first place!) and, yes, you can still finish rich, even in this economy. BUT you can’t start over and finish rich if you give up. You have to get back up off the ground, dust yourself off, and keep going.
Recessions like the one we have just experienced are not fun. They are gut shattering, and they take a long time to recover from. But we do recover. What’s more, the aftermath of a recession is the ideal environment in which to lay the foundation for a secure, financially independent future. Although the economy has already come a long way back from where it was in the winter of 2008–09, both real estate values and stock prices are still way below the peaks they hit in 2006 and 2007. In other words, there are bargains—in some cases, phenomenal bargains—to be had. More important, recessions can be a great time to reset your financial life, your goals, and your values.

how to start over?
 (Hint: It’s Never Too Late)

I got an email from a reader last week with the subject line “How to Start Over”. In it, the reader shared his personal story – being about 10 years into his career – balancing life with kids, a family, and a big corporate job – all while trying to establish his own digital platform and business – and feeling like it’s time to break free and change things, but feeling overwhelmed by the idea of “starting over”.

He brought up a point that I’ve been confronted with many times. I wanted to share my response to his email, with one overwhelming preface: You’re never “stuck”. As much as it may feel like you can’t get out of your current situation – as much weight as you put on the importance of maintaining your nine to five – as much fear as you have of disappointing your family – regardless of your current situation and regardless of your age, you’re never ever stuck.

“…I think you bring up a point that folks are faced with time and time again. I always share the story of my dad and I playing golf last year. He’s been an accountant for almost 40 years, and he’s always been apathetic to his work and has always told me he’s just “working to retire”. When I asked him why he doesn’t quit and do something else – his response was that he’s been doing what he does for so long, and it just “is what it is” – and that he doesn’t know what else he would do.

Believe me, I can understand the sentiment, and it’s hard to get into something new when you’ve been doing the same old thing for so long. But it was this conversation that inspired me and continues to motivate me to not waste a moment that I have to work on doing what I really WANT to be (and should be) doing. It’s kept me humble and active in continuing to build my business and establish myself professionally.

The best thing I can say is that you’re not stuck. You never are. It’s not easy to break free and do your own thing – especially with the added responsibility of supporting a family – But if I, a 27 year old with not a heck of a lot of experience, can get fired and start a business at age 24 – someone at age 35, or 50, or however old, with a heck of a lot more life and work experience, can certainly do it. It just takes creating a plan of action for yourself – and not being defined by your age, or held back by your current situation.

Take things one step at a time. You don’t have to quit TODAY and go “pursue your passion”. Create a plan. Start working on your passions on the side (it sounds like you already are) – and set yourself up to make an easier transition in the not-too-distant future. It also REALLY helps to set a deadline for yourself – a date to take the leap – and work toward that…”

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17 REASONS TO NEVER GIVE UP

17 Reasons To Never Give Up:

1. You Are Alive And You Can

As long as you are alive you have no excuse to say you can’t. If you put your mind to it, you can do anything. Anything is possible.

So many of our dreams at first seem impossible, then they seem improbable, and then, when we summon the will, they soon become inevitable. -  Christopher Reeve



The only valid excuse to give up is that you are dead, and if you’re reading this well…

2. Believe In Your Dreams

When you give up, you give up on yourself. Don’t sell yourself short and don’t let anybody bring you down. If you can dream it you can do it. There have been millions of dreamers before you and if they had given up the world wouldn’t have been the same.

Take the example of the Wright brothers who faced sever ridicule when they tried to make flight a reality. Everybody laughed at them and told them it was impossible. They proved the world wrong, and now flight now is considered a common means of travel and it has changed the world.

Hold fast to your dreams, for without them life is a broken winged bird that cannot fly. -Langston Hughes



3. You Have Everything You Need

Everything you need to reach your goal is already inside of you. Don’t make excuses, if people can play sports at the Olympic level with disabilities; your short-comings begin to look irrelevant.  

Be thankful. And use your God given blessings.



4. You Don’t Want To Regret This

Regret is the worse feeling a person can feel. Don’t put yourself in that position and do what you have to do, now.

I do not regret the things I've done, but those I did not do.- Rory Cochrane



5. You Need To Prove It To Yourself

You want to prove it to yourself and the world that you can.

Don’t let anything stop you from your goal. True failure isn’t when you miss the mark; but it’s when you give up. You are more capable and quitting is for losers.   

6. Success Feels Great

There is no better feeling in this world other than knowing that you faced an obstacle and that only through grit and determination you overcame it and became successful.

7. It Could Change For The Better

It might be really tough now, but it can all instantly change. If you keep going at it you never know when you’ll hit a breakthrough.

Don’t be like the person who dug a well 50mand gave up justifying that he was digging a dry well. And the person who came after him dug 1 m and hit water.

8. This Is Meant To Happen

You were destined to do this. Nothing can stop you but yourself so keep going at it and never give up. #BecomeLegendary



9. You Are Strong

You have the strength to do whatever you want and no matter the amount of setbacks you face you have the strength to keep going.

10. Pride

You have high standards for yourself and you must try to never fall short. Work as hard as you have to, for as long as you have to, to achieve your goal.

11. Learning

You will learn a lot from not giving up. You will learn about your strengths and your weaknesses. How to do things better next time and most importantly you will learn how to tackle the problems that you face head-on.

12. It Could Be Worse

The situation could be a lot worse and you should be thankful for being able to face what you are facing, because there are people out there who have much bigger problems.

13. You Deserve Happiness And Success

Everyone deserves happiness and success, including you. Don’t let these small bumps in the road take away your right.

14. Inspire Others

Be an inspiration for others. Refuse to give up and try your hardest; you never know who is watching. Your hard work and dedication could be the spark that was needed to light the dreams of those around you. Maybe you have children or siblings that look up to you. You are a hero.

15. Failure Is Normal

It’s impossible to reach success without first facing failure, so don’t let anything stop you. Failure is a normal process in life. It’s not the end but just a stream changing directions before it finally reaches the ocean.

I can accept failure, everyone fails at something. But I can't accept not trying. -Michael Jordan



16. Things Can Only Get Better

By sticking to your goal and being persistent things can only get better. If you’ve hit rock bottom or feel you’re on your way down. Remind yourself that with the right amount of hard work what comes down must go up.

Hard work and determination can get you anything in life.

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17. It’s Always The Darkest Before Dawn


Understand that the hardest trials are the ones that come right before the breakthrough. So stay persistent because at any given moment you are at the tipping point and success awaits you.

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COLLEGE DEGREES IMPORTANT OR NOT?

Does degree is important for success?

How important is a degree in becoming 'Successful in Life'?

Still have a question? Ask your own!

A person can be very successful without a degree. So many scientist have discovered and invented many things without having a degree. ... To become successful in a profession degrees are important. But to become successful in life, a degree is as importantas money is to become happy.

There are some common traits among sucessful people and I have met a few people who can be considered as sucessful.

1. They are big dreamers. More importantly the believe in their dreams.
2. They are friendly and nice people.
3. They all have strong value system.
4. Money is by-product of good work. These people focus more on their work and if money happens-great.
5. They believe in action. Everyone has plans. The difference lies weather you have convection to go ahead and implement them. 
6. They have as many fears as others. Courage is doing things inspite of fear. Not having fear is not courage. Except a movie hero, rest have their fears.
7. Successful people generally have mastery over their anger.
8. Most importantly they have clear cut goals. Rarely, these people lose focus of what they want.
9. They have supreme self-belief.
10. They never look at past, good or bad. They have a vision for present and future.
11. They are rarely self-centric. They have a vision for their sub-ordinates aswell.
12. They dont believe in impossibles and openly flaunt established norms.

Degree never is a criterion. It helps but its not a must. Else, we wouldn't have a college drop-out as world's richest man.

Conclusion

Degree is the theoretical evaluation of an abstract concept which is virtually not possible. It is the skill that helps the person to grow up both materially / financially and immaterially with respect to the status, importance, social respect and recognition etc. Degree definitely has its own importance, as a person need to have some skill in order to achieve the degree. A complete dumb individual cannot qualify to attain the degree. Hence , we can summarize by saying that the degree is the first step in the ladder of skills which leads to the success in life.

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